🜂 The Problem Between Masculine and Feminine

The crisis between the Masculine and the Feminine is not born from a lack of love — but from an excess of fear and technology.

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At the basic, “sleeping” level of consciousness,

Most of the people live in mutual fear / intrust —

a subtle war of the Egos.

They don’t seek connection — they seek a perfection or to fill a void.

A man may be capable of devotion, admiration, and generosity —

yet he often fails to see in the Feminine a Personality.

He sees a function, a projection, a prize.

In response, the Woman revolts against this devaluation,

declaring that “all men are the same,”

and retreats into autonomy — or a Boston marriage.

‘Boston Marriage‘ was a term used in the 19th century and into the early 20th century to refer to two single women living together, independent of men. The term was originally coined in Henry James’ 1886 novel “The Bostonians”, which told the tale of an intimate companionship between two wealthy, Boston women. The whole concept was not just fiction but rather an accepted practice in America at that time. “Boston marriage” was a long-term, committed relationship between two middle or upper-class women, particularly common in New England in the late 19th and early 20th centuries.

This is the Ego’s protective game —

a choreography ensuring that the Real Meeting never happens.

Both keep running —

escaping the trembling truth of intimacy.

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✨ But when awareness awakens, the Egos game ends.

The Masculine no longer needs to conquer — he begins to witness.

The Feminine no longer needs to defend — she begins to reveal.

Love stops being a battlefield and becomes an alchemy —

a sacred experiment where two souls remember

they were never enemies,

only mirrors polishing each other

back to the brilliance of wholeness.

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💫 We are not broken in our capacity to love.

We are simply terrified to be seen.

To meet the Other is to dissolve the illusion of control —

And that’s what the Ego fears the most.

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